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	<title>A Faith To Live By &#187; friendship</title>
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		<title>&#8216;How was your weekend?&#8217; Speaking for Christ at work &#8211; 11 top tips</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jul 2012 09:02:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s never easy to speak up for Christ at work. Here&#8217;s 11 top tips to aid our evangelism 1. Be known as a Christian from the start 2. Remember you [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>It&#8217;s never easy to speak up for Christ at work. Here&#8217;s 11 top tips to aid our evangelism</h3>
<p><a href="http://www.afaithtoliveby.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/807851_friends_in_business.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-3198" title="807851_friends_in_business" src="http://www.afaithtoliveby.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/807851_friends_in_business.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a>1. Be known as a Christian from the start</p>
<p>2. Remember you are paid to do your job not to evangelise. Credibility as a witness means not abusing a trust. Make the most of an opportunity but don&#8217;t stop work for extended conversations.</p>
<p>3. Watch the way you live as well as speak. It might be a small thing but turning up for work on time (or not!) adds or detracts from your witness to Christ.</p>
<p>4. Recognise that the approach to witness will look different depending on your workplace context.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">If you work in a place with a large turn-over of staff you may only have one or two opportunities  with people. Being <em>bold</em> is the key.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">If your workplace involves you working with the same people day in and day out then <em>gentleness</em> is crucial.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">If you work in a place where you are very much a junior colleague being <em>patient</em> might be the key.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">&#8216;Earning&#8217; the right to be heard might be necessary in a more hierarchical organisation that will require <em>perseverance.</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Working alongside more vulnerable people; hospital patients, school children, etc. will require <em>discernment</em> as to when it is appropriate to share.</p>
<p>5. Recognise that you can go long periods of time without an opportunity at work. The work place environment is not naturally conducive to deeper conversations.</p>
<p>6. Build trust by demonstrating the values of friendship – compassion, loyalty, vulnerability, openness.</p>
<p>7. Remember details as people have shared them with you eg. Partner’s name, children’s names, ages, interests and then try to follow them up in natural conversation.</p>
<p>8. Pray by name for people!</p>
<p>9. Read a Christian book at lunch-time but think carefully about your choice. Pick a title or topic that might open up conversation eg at the time of the Olympics a biography of Eric Liddell.</p>
<p>10. <em>Prepare</em> for Monday morning and the’ interesting weekend?’ questions that might come. Have something curious to say that provokes a response.</p>
<p>11. Be cautious of getting too friendly or personal with someone of the opposite sex. Friendliness on our part because we want to share Christ can, in a non-Christian’s mind, be confused for romantic interest.</p>
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		<title>The &#8216;busy&#8217; trap &#8211; what your endless activity says about you. Great piece in NY Times</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jul 2012 15:05:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>neil</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tim Kreider gets to the heart of our need to be busy exploring what lies behind our endless activity in this penetrating New York Times piece. Busyness serves as a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.afaithtoliveby.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/111111busy.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-3125" title="111111busy" src="http://www.afaithtoliveby.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/111111busy.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a>Tim Kreider gets to the heart of our need to be busy exploring what lies behind our endless activity in this penetrating <a href="http://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/2012/06/30/the-busy-trap/?smid=tw-share">New York Times piece</a>.</p>
<p><em>Busyness serves as a kind of existential reassurance, a hedge against emptiness; obviously your life cannot possibly be silly or trivial or meaningless if you are so busy, completely booked, in demand every hour of the day.</em></p>
<p>(HT: <a href="http://www.davidsharvey.co.uk/">David S Harvey</a>)</p>
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		<title>True friendship?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Jan 2011 09:15:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>neil</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today&#8217;s i headline makes for sobering reading. True friendship consists not in the multitude of friends, but in their worth and value &#8211; Ben Johnson A man of many companions [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.afaithtoliveby.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/20110106fp_529281s.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-595" title="20110106fp_529281s" src="http://www.afaithtoliveby.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/20110106fp_529281s.jpg" alt="" width="326" height="421" /></a>Today&#8217;s i headline makes for sobering reading.</p>
<p><em>True friendship consists not in the multitude of friends, but in their worth and value &#8211; </em><span style="font-size: 15.6px;">Ben Johnson</span></p>
<p><em>A man of many companions may come to ruin,but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother </em>- Proverbs 18:24</p>
<p>Where God gives us opportunity let us be true friends today.</p>
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